Saturday, June 20, 2009

P.S. For a pretty person, you do the ugliest things...

I never understood the concept of why men think women with long hair has some type of dominance over beauty. As if it is to say that hair makes a woman beautiful. I cut my hair by choice, and my personal uptake on beauty had little to do with it. I somehow irrelevantly cut my hair when it was just hitting its peak of elongating. Odds are, many people including women think I look better with my shortage of hair. Which is why I always wondered how the word beauty became so narrow-minded anyway.

Who really knows the definition of beauty? Or better said, how do we know there IS a true definition of beauty? Is it really okay that some random person decided to put their own opinion of what beauty looked like into an organized definition and then claimed, THIS is what beauty is, no more, no less? I sat and pondered the “written” definition for a moment, at first I thought I was proven wrong but then noticed that it all falls back to attractiveness, all things pretty. Bullshit. Now I am not a religious person, but in my own opinion, god created each of us differently for a very simple, yet meaningful reason.

The way I see it, is that beauty is defined in each of us. There is no one way to look, think, or act to be beautiful. Beauty comes from within, now what each of us choose to make of it, is your own prerogative. It is quite true when people say the prettiest people, do the ugliest things. Your actions/reactions reflect on who you are as a whole. You can be the most beautiful person on earth but if you act ugly, you are viewed ugly; plain and simple, yet meaningful as I mentioned before.



1 comment:

Gloria known as Gigi♥ said...

thankk yoou!!
finally suone tht knows the realll truth.
men annoy me.!

Smh. They want my Gunz and LipGloss?!?.....okay I'll share.